"NAYA SAVERA...."

Today is “women’s day”..have you thought , how will you celebrate this day, have you ever stolen such happiness from life? Perhaps not…woman never pray for her happiness rather she feels it , in others heart. ..probably this has become a main reason of man’s thinking that women are weak and depend on him.
From the childhood everybody is ready to take “her” decisions ….in which school , she will go , what subject she will choose, in which college she will take admission, what kind of friends she should have, which career she should opt n last but not the least whom she should marry with..People feel privilege in taking her decisions…..i mean, is anywhere written that “SHE CAN’T TAKE HER DECISIONS”…???...from the starting to the end …everything is told to her, I am not saying that she should not listen to anyone and make her decision on her own..i just want to tell that she should know that “she is able to take decision..”
We talk about 33% reservation of women in parliament but do we know that what percentage of women is a victim of domestic violence, what % of women living in rural and urban areas are being sufferer of rapes, what is the % of dead girl child fetus, found in the rivers..And what is the % of BROKEN DREAMS…and then we talk about women empowerment…??????
Women empowerment is not about that some of the women reach to the top, its about empowerment of ‘heart ‘of each and every women….!! She should believe in herself that she can take on anybody..need is to take stand for herself….!
Every mother say to her daughter that “ ek aurat tyaag, balidan aur pyaar ki moorti hai, use toh doosro ke liye he jeena hai, sab kuch sehan karna hai…”..but simply WHY…??? She sacrifice her dreams, her life , her ambitions for others..because some where or the other , she loves to do this, its in her nature but people take advantage of this thing. Instead of giving her respect ..they consider it as her duty..which she has to fulfill..!
Living for others doesn’t mean that you can’t live for yourself, do live but remember GOD has made, you also as an individual, like a man..so before being a daughter ,mother ,sister and wife..just be ..”YOU”…!
We all have seen the ads of “women upliftment” on Doordarshan that.” don’t kill girl child, she can become saniya mirza, kiran bedi, aishwarya rai..blah blah..i simply ask ..agar vo nahi ban payi toh ‘maar doge’..i find these ads realy ridiculous … they want to say if she doesn’t become successful person or celebrity, she doesn’t have right to live??why don’t they put such conditions with men?? ..”Like if he doesn’t become sachin tendulkar , sharukh khan etc. etc.”….when GOD doesn’t keep any condition for her, who the bloody hell they are….?
Anyways..i will be keep saying this. I just pray that “this world may become better place for women..”
By the way…HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY..