"THAT WON'T HAPPEN WITH ME"...!!

We all must have seen couples crying on their relationships..what thoughts would have come in our mind??..”naah…that won’t happen with me, he /she loves me so much….we are so much into love”..right???

What you must have felt when you saw somebody got failed..again..”that wont happen with me”..i mean there are many instances ,when we think ..”no dude..thats not gonna happen with me”…!!may be we say that in a funny way..but that’s what we believe…realy..we don’t want to envisage any worst thing happening to us..as if we are some out –of-the-world creature..& nothing wrong will happen with us..but life..life is same for all of us..its about summers and winters..struggles ..problems at times..!!

Truth is everything changes..yeah it is…nothing remains same..our relationships..feelings..behaviours..people around us..they all change..!!
And these changes keep us bothered ..shattered sometimes..!! but instead of thinking “that won’t happen with me” we should focus on that how would we face that changes.
See pain is unavoidable but suffering is optional…there are only two option …either you fight with that change or walk away.. lose yourself..your identity..your respect..all your hopes..!!choice is yours..!

The people who have courage always chose the first option ..which is the right one..!its so easy to give up..anyway..

Now if we chose 1st option..how to go about it

You know ..in our life we think in a very low frame..we don’t see or understand the bigger picture..we concentrate only on that rushes of feelings..weak moments..and it become so easy to lose our self to that particular situation…we all do that..but if we could see that every little thing is happening for a bigger and better reason..a reason which is planned for us..by almighty ..we just need to believe him..!!

“some thing which is not meant for us..will not be with us..”..!!

But it takes time to completely understand and accept that truth..coz we all are so stubborn inside..we don’t like to do things ..which are against our will..our comfort zone …our beliefs..!! these are things which..may be..will not make any sense ..lets say after one year..but we make that thing so important that we even don’t mind ruining our life..of course unconsciously..coz we are not able to realize that..it happens all of a sudden..!BOOM..so many emotions..feelings..thoughts..and we just give up on that moment.

So”that won’t happen with me” is kinda illusionary sentence..

we are all humans..we do mistakes ..nothing wrong in that..but right thing to do after it..is learning from it..

what is to happen ,will happen…it makes no sense to get stuck with your mistakes..situations..coz nasty things will happen..people will keep hurting you…failures would be there and suffering as well..but if you will learn to face those problems..than you will be certainly out of it.

Remember one thing..never ..never…never…give up on someone or something..which is right…!!