"EXPECTATION ...."

“Expectations”…wht comes in ur mind first, whn u listen this word……m sure….sumthin tht is not gud, negative, burden ….right na..?

But I gave this word a moment n then got to know the real meaning of…”expectation” and its relation ship wid “our relations”..

Lets c it in this way…..the ppl. …I hav no expectation wid…r the ppl…who r not as imp. To me as the ppl. I hav expectation frm….

It seems to me tht…”the more expectation…the more stronger relationships..”
(its hard to behave the way they show in all spiritual channels…”no expectation …no demands…”:0)

But the question is…”expectation exist bcoz of relations or relations exist bcoz of expectation ….tough one na…?
Do u know the answer….??for ex. Whn v meet sumone …we meet wid no expectation….than if v find , v can hav connection wid tht person..if tht person can give love, friendship in return….wid this expectation we start walking on path of relationship…!


Soo…I think …expectation n relation go hand in hand…!
If you don’t expect from a relation…you can’t go ahead wid it…”!!!
Now the bigger question,”why v say…expectation kills..”??
Either expectation kills the relation or relation dies without expectation..interesting na…kitne log aap ko yaad hai..jinse aapko bilkul expectation nahi…?(plzz don’t give name of sabji vaala, doodhvaala…hehe…rather v expect from them too…to give us better quality..) sabse he hame badle me kuch na kuch toh chahiye he na..!!
Big issues of life…hmm??..hav u ever felt tht life’s questions r more difficult than the questions of our study course…..well I toh feel so…u know v get the answer of our course in our books…but life’s answers…v hav to find ourselves…wid our experience…


Okk…so where v were..hmm..expectation n relation…I think both r complementary to each other…let me give u an easy example of that…
Like if v have a plant..we water it..everyday, day by day…it grows…flowers comes, fruits cums…we enjoy watering tht plant…but suddenly to get more…we start water it thrice a day, then four time n so on means…more than it requires …than wht happens….we all know…plant dies one day…!!
moral of the story: “a relation can give..as much as it contains..not more than tht..” whn u expect it to give..it will give…but whn u expect it to give more…it won’t….!


EXPECTATION DOESN’T KILL….MORE EXPACTATION KILLS…!!
Keep watering ur relations wid healty expectation  ….than only ur plant will grow n will bcum a strong tree…!
Not to keep expectations is not in our hand..we all do..! but remember one thing ..”kisi se jitna bhi mile thik hai…”
Just relish wht u hav got from others…!!