Thursday, October 7, 2010

“don’t get angry”


IMAGE: the sun at its extreme fire, with burning flames and aggressive as if ready to wipe out anything which comes its way.


REFLECTION: the person, anger affects the most, is one who is angry …!
“Anger” is such a strong emotion…because we give all our positive energy to it and are left with “negativity”….!!


Just read the image once again, the sun which has the power to destroy anything by its fire…burns itself too. ..!! Similarly, the one, who is angry, is not harming anyone else but himself. So the worst thing we can do with ourselves is to “get angry”….!

Why we get angry?????... it seems a very easy question…we can give thousands of reasons that what makes us gnashing our teeth …but have we ever thought that, “why should we get angry”…. “why we have to react in that manner only”…”why to take things so seriously and offensively”… “Why to be a magnet for negative emotions”…??
In short …when we know, that our ‘anger’ will not going to change anything about concerning situation or person…than why to get angry.

It is true , that there are certain situations and behaviors that are really unavoidable and demand for a hostile reaction from your side …but it doesn’t mean at all that your “aggressive reaction” will be the ultimate solution of any problem…so when “anger” is not the vital solution of any trouble…its better to leave it…and take decisions from a cool and calm mind which is more likely to give a positive way out .

So…whenever you loose your control over your nerves and get angry, instead of thinking “this makes me angry” .just think “why should get angry”…and its not for your enemy’s welfare …its for you…

Care for yourself and “don’t get angry” remember one thing…

“Don't let no small frustration
Ever bring you down…
Just take a situation

And turn it all around
With a new attitude everything can change
Make it how you want it to be

Stay mad, why do that? Give yourself a break
Laugh about it and you'll see the change…

Why be sad broken hearted?
There's so much to do
Life is hard or it's a party
The choice is up to you”…

5 comments:

  1. hey yar superb.......
    seriously a good write up.

    anyways want to add up to the text

    at the end of the burning day ,it is the only sun which has to hide itself behind the mountains or cool itself by going for a bath in rivers....

    hence the suffering of frowning is to be fulfilled by oneself more then anyone else.



    and ya the sentence "respond and not react" is right
    i have read it somewhere else also

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  2. hey thnxxx...yahi write up kalpna mam ne likhne kaha tha...she realy liked it..she said,...she wil incorporate this wid her write up...:)
    n ur add up was realy gud...:)

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  3. hey superb dear, grt write up n ya nice add up by shweta. miss u both....
    tc n kp writing

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  4. @ rashu yar
    we even miss u lot
    sumtimes a lot lot lot
    hope to see u soon

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