I don't know what you might think about the heading..:everything illusion"...ummm you may think that "everything is illusion" or you may think "illusion is everything"...shit..!! sorry for my absurd sense of humor sometimes...ok..!! i end this guessing game..
well..."everything -illusion " is my illusion..ok let me start with this, "the reality"..It seems that one person can not give another everything"..you are right. very smart.very astute.very sensible..with this rationale at the back of your mind you will never be in danger of demanding too much from another person and without this burden you can settle instead for simply contributing to their happiness. This saves energy for more so called difficult times. Its how people live together,its how people get married, its how promises are delivered . And now comes my illusion.."it seems that one person can not give another everything..but..it should be one's ambition and one should never stop trying"..!!
I am not much convinced with the idea of "partnership of convenience " are created,consolidated,neglected,wrenched,saved and how they pull through in the end. Major task..!! i have great deal of respect for all that honestly. i do. but I can't be, don't want to be,don't think like this.
i don't think relationships should be made outta convinience. somebody has same status...lets be together, somebody has same family values ,same culture,same society..lets be together..??
one should be genuinely interested in another's life. one should be willing to do anything for someones's happiness..i know all sounds too demanding but I am saying this as part of doing not part of expecting..!1
people might say "who has time to give someone everything".."there are other issues too.".."day to day struggle" " inflation", "politics", "relatives" " and TV too..funny..!!
i would just say one needs to think why they are running for, chasing for and then you won't find this everything -illusion...just a illusion..!
my mother think its dangerous illusion for a girl..:P i might not get anyone to marry..;P..well thats a possibility...:P lets see...!!
