"THAT WON'T HAPPEN WITH ME"...!!

We all must have seen couples crying on their relationships..what thoughts would have come in our mind??..”naah…that won’t happen with me, he /she loves me so much….we are so much into love”..right???

What you must have felt when you saw somebody got failed..again..”that wont happen with me”..i mean there are many instances ,when we think ..”no dude..thats not gonna happen with me”…!!may be we say that in a funny way..but that’s what we believe…realy..we don’t want to envisage any worst thing happening to us..as if we are some out –of-the-world creature..& nothing wrong will happen with us..but life..life is same for all of us..its about summers and winters..struggles ..problems at times..!!

Truth is everything changes..yeah it is…nothing remains same..our relationships..feelings..behaviours..people around us..they all change..!!
And these changes keep us bothered ..shattered sometimes..!! but instead of thinking “that won’t happen with me” we should focus on that how would we face that changes.
See pain is unavoidable but suffering is optional…there are only two option …either you fight with that change or walk away.. lose yourself..your identity..your respect..all your hopes..!!choice is yours..!

The people who have courage always chose the first option ..which is the right one..!its so easy to give up..anyway..

Now if we chose 1st option..how to go about it

You know ..in our life we think in a very low frame..we don’t see or understand the bigger picture..we concentrate only on that rushes of feelings..weak moments..and it become so easy to lose our self to that particular situation…we all do that..but if we could see that every little thing is happening for a bigger and better reason..a reason which is planned for us..by almighty ..we just need to believe him..!!

“some thing which is not meant for us..will not be with us..”..!!

But it takes time to completely understand and accept that truth..coz we all are so stubborn inside..we don’t like to do things ..which are against our will..our comfort zone …our beliefs..!! these are things which..may be..will not make any sense ..lets say after one year..but we make that thing so important that we even don’t mind ruining our life..of course unconsciously..coz we are not able to realize that..it happens all of a sudden..!BOOM..so many emotions..feelings..thoughts..and we just give up on that moment.

So”that won’t happen with me” is kinda illusionary sentence..

we are all humans..we do mistakes ..nothing wrong in that..but right thing to do after it..is learning from it..

what is to happen ,will happen…it makes no sense to get stuck with your mistakes..situations..coz nasty things will happen..people will keep hurting you…failures would be there and suffering as well..but if you will learn to face those problems..than you will be certainly out of it.

Remember one thing..never ..never…never…give up on someone or something..which is right…!!

Manali Trip....

This I wrote during my journey from Chandigarh to jodhpur.. Soo I am finally back from our trip to manali and only thing I can remember about it just fuckin travel. We just traveled ..sometimes by bus. Sometimes by car or by train.. long hours of travel ..i don’t know when I truly felt that I am on vacation at a very beautiful place …yeah it was hopelessly boring…but the scenery was no doubt overwhelming .but I couldn’t felt its charm by heart. We spent money more on having breakfast, lunches and dinners ..but not a single effort for having fun we should have had there…may be it comes from inside..now I have developed a kinda hatred for family outings…no I really do. Parents just want to protect you all the time..”don’t go there”..don’t go ahead”..”there are guys only”..wtf..i hate to be protected. I can care for myself ..and I don’t like when someone is guiding me each and every time. We took lots of pictures..the only good thing we did…it was stupid taking pics every min. but as longer as I look cute in them..i don’t mind it..:) My parents were continuously worried about the money hotel and transport people were making there..:P..c’mon we were on holiday..!! and they just used to talk about “why we are not getting home made food, fresh milk..cheap clothes..and the list goes on …:P The only moment I felt good throughout was when rashu called me up and said that why didn’t I inform her that I am going on vacation…I mean I was happy that still there are genuine people who care for you..i know sound freakishly negative but I do that a lot..people who know me understand why I am feeling so… I wanted that trip to be ended though I love to be close to nature but that wasn’t enough…so I craved to be home.i very much desired to meet navaab and my niece …two source of unconditional love…!! I am in the train & just have finished reading a novel”if its not forever..its not love”..by durjoy dutta & nikita singh. I wonder does a guy realy exist who could luv so honestly? Well now toh I don’t even believe that “love”exist ..let alone say guy..anyways I finished the novel in merely one day..in my train journey coming back to jodhpur..and it was quite good..worth reading..!! I am waiting to reach home ..and get drowned with my usual life..!! I wish I could have a wonderful trip next time..!!