It’s been yrs.
It’s been month….days…
And moments…..
Now my eyes have to stop searching….
Coz…sometimes u have to stop waiting….!!
I found myself standing….
When everyone else was walking…..
What the hell….i was doing…??
I think…. sometimes u have to stop waiting….!!
Nothing comes….just like that…
U close ur eyes….
Praying enuf from heart…
When u stop….someone may start feeling….
sometimes u just..have to stop waiting….!!
Don’t ask…n u will get…
Sooner ..or may be late…!
Its not….when it comes…
It comes….for sure…!
Somewhere heart is assuring ….
But u have to stop waiting….!!
Destiny….let the people meet…
Straight on the road..
Or down the street…
It knows ur way…
Open the door it is coming…
Hmm.. u have to stop waiting….!!
Right moment…perfect person…
Come on..u got to stop dreaming…!!:)
Ohh ..i think now..i have to stop writing…
“Expectations”…wht comes in ur mind first, whn u listen this word……m sure….sumthin tht is not gud, negative, burden ….right na..?
But I gave this word a moment n then got to know the real meaning of…”expectation” and its relation ship wid “our relations”..
Lets c it in this way…..the ppl. …I hav no expectation wid…r the ppl…who r not as imp. To me as the ppl. I hav expectation frm….
It seems to me tht…”the more expectation…the more stronger relationships..”
(its hard to behave the way they show in all spiritual channels…”no expectation …no demands…”:0)
But the question is…”expectation exist bcoz of relations or relations exist bcoz of expectation ….tough one na…?
Do u know the answer….??for ex. Whn v meet sumone …we meet wid no expectation….than if v find , v can hav connection wid tht person..if tht person can give love, friendship in return….wid this expectation we start walking on path of relationship…!
Soo…I think …expectation n relation go hand in hand…!
If you don’t expect from a relation…you can’t go ahead wid it…”!!!
Now the bigger question,”why v say…expectation kills..”??
Either expectation kills the relation or relation dies without expectation..interesting na…kitne log aap ko yaad hai..jinse aapko bilkul expectation nahi…?(plzz don’t give name of sabji vaala, doodhvaala…hehe…rather v expect from them too…to give us better quality..) sabse he hame badle me kuch na kuch toh chahiye he na..!!
Big issues of life…hmm??..hav u ever felt tht life’s questions r more difficult than the questions of our study course…..well I toh feel so…u know v get the answer of our course in our books…but life’s answers…v hav to find ourselves…wid our experience…
Okk…so where v were..hmm..expectation n relation…I think both r complementary to each other…let me give u an easy example of that…
Like if v have a plant..we water it..everyday, day by day…it grows…flowers comes, fruits cums…we enjoy watering tht plant…but suddenly to get more…we start water it thrice a day, then four time n so on means…more than it requires …than wht happens….we all know…plant dies one day…!!
moral of the story: “a relation can give..as much as it contains..not more than tht..” whn u expect it to give..it will give…but whn u expect it to give more…it won’t….!
EXPECTATION DOESN’T KILL….MORE EXPACTATION KILLS…!!
Keep watering ur relations wid healty expectation ….than only ur plant will grow n will bcum a strong tree…!
Not to keep expectations is not in our hand..we all do..! but remember one thing ..”kisi se jitna bhi mile thik hai…”
Just relish wht u hav got from others…!!
Gar dil se tujhe apnate…
Teri lehar me sama jate…
Toh shayad ae jindgi tuje samajh pate….!
Na kabhi gam satate…
Na fir hum ghabrate…
Agar kuch sapne na sajate….
Toh shayad ae jindgi tuje samajh pate….!
Kash jido ko apni hadd na banate..
Us raha pe bas chalte jate…
Aur Khawaabo ki duniya na basate….
Toh shayad ae jindgi tuje samajh pate….!
Koshish jo karte na ulajhne ki..
Sulajh he jate…vo sawaal hum nahi uthate..
Toh shayad ae jindgi tuje samajh pate….!
